Posted in conflictmanagement on January 01, 2010
If you have doubts, just think about why two people attempt the same kind of goal in relationship, one of them succeeds, and another fells short? Is it sheer luck? More often than not, it’s a person’s perspective about their own value in relationships and about what is relationship that determines whether they fell short or succeed.
What is a perspective, anyway? Typically a perspective refers to your predominant tendency to interpret events and make meanings moment to moment. There is no right or wrong about perspectives, but there are productive or unproductive perspectives. The definition of productive or unproductive is up to you to define.
Posted in emotional intelligence on December 01, 2009
I have worked so hard in past three weeks to get ready to launch my new websites and the new focus in my business: two websites prepared, e-course designed and newsletter articles written… “Almost there” I said to myself last night. The last thing needed in putting the grand puzzle together is to transfer my newsletter subscriber list from the old system to the new one before I turn the key. To make sure no message goes out to the list before I first send out an announcement and agreement email to the list, I contacted my email marketing hosting site. They reassured me that I needed not to be worried about any message be automatically send out to a list.
As I was preparing the final details of the‘grand opening’, I was horrified to notice that somehow the new email marketing system has already send one of my messages to the list! Worst yet, it is part of a series that is only intended to send to the new subscribers!
Posted in conflictmanagement on October 06, 2009
I sit down one day reading through the news, current drama of crisis, my emotions were fired up by the terrible things the banking and mortgage industry have done to the innocent home owners. Foreclosures are mounting and the innocent people are losing their homes, all becasue of the unethical business doing of the banking and mortgage industry.
Then I asked my self:”Really? Is that the complet story?” I beg for difference.
A man makes $3500/month, and brought a house for $600K, now he is losing his house. A family struggling to make ends meet by living at low income housing, brought a house for $400K. Now, they are lamenting about how the mortgage companies are irresponsible and make them losing their homes and losing their American dreams!
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